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How well do you know me? Five questions for couples.

Five everyday either-or questions for date night or long distance. Answer them yourself, send one private link, and your partner predicts each pick before the reveal.

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The five couples questions.

Each question is written from your side: you answer for yourself, and your partner guesses what you chose. The questions cover a snack, a gesture, a disagreement, a trip and good news.

  1. Which snack would I reach for first?Something sweet · or · Something salty
  2. Which thoughtful gesture lands better for me?A surprise · or · Something planned together
  3. In a disagreement, what is more my style?Talk it through now · or · Cool off first
  4. How would I rather take a trip?Planned in detail · or · Spontaneous as we go
  5. After I share good news, what feels best?A warm message · or · A lively celebration
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How the deck works.

  1. You answer the five. Pick one side of each question, the way you would actually choose.
  2. You send one private link. Your partner opens it, no account needed. How the link holds your answers.
  3. They predict, then see the reveal. One point per exact prediction, then your actual picks.
  4. They can swap roles. After the reveal, they can answer the same five and send their own link back.

What the research note covers.

These questions are a game, not a measurement. For the evidence on how well people predict each other, read How well do couples know each other’s preferences?. The note looks at a study of partners predicting each other’s food preferences, which preferences were easier to predict, and why a miss is not compatibility evidence.

More questions.

Want a different format? Try the couples quiz. It has its own five picks and reports Knowledge and Match after both of you answer. Or browse all 100 reviewed questions and build your own deck of 5 to 30.